Get the Most Out of Your Love Life


What I Do

Individual  Coaching

Coaching Sessions are 1-on-1 confidential, compassionate, and judgement-free conversations. You deserve a safe space to heal, connect, and explore. Begin a journey of sexual empowerment, self-love, processing trauma, exploring your identity, and/or gaining tools to become a better friend/lover/partner.


My approach to couples coaching involves identifying patterns of behavior in the relationship, allowing us to figure out what works and what doesn't. By maintaining a focus on the needs of each person as an individual, and together as a couple, I aim to establish more loving tools of healthy communication that allow both partners to be seen and heard. 

Advertising on Social Media

I create branded content on social media for companies I feel my values are aligned with. I particularly enjoy doing campaigns, giveaways, reviews, and IG reels/TikToks. I'm interested in collaborating with open-minded people across all industries! Please email for potential partnerships.


I am passionate about public speaking and advocating for sexuality and healthy relationships. I am available to speak at conferences, events, and workshops as well as on podcasts and other media channels. If you are interested in having me speak at your event, please email

Sex and Relationship

Let me host and/or design a workshop for you. Through my range of expertise in the fields of sexual, mental, and emotional health; I have the resources to provide excellent information and skill-building exercises for your group or company. To learn more about what working with me, email  

Hello, I’m Shelby!

Here to take your love and sex life to another level

I'm a love, sex, and life coach based in New York City. I have a background in holistic Transformational Life Coaching (ICF). My mission is to hold space for people to explore their sexuality and relationships with open minds and honest hearts. I offer a judgement-free space where my clients can feel comfortable, authentically connected, and free to explore their lives with curiosity.


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What People Are Saying

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Shelby was able to talk through my emotions and helped me consciously choose to make healthy decisions. I have been able to pinpoint my wants and needs and she has given me tools to exercise that. Showing me vulnerability isn’t weakness  which sounds like an easy concept but I couldn’t wrap my head around it without her. I feel clarity with my thoughts after every session. She has helped my intimate and personal relationships tremendously. Thank you! 

Puteri - Client 


Let's Get Started

Book a free consultation to get started on your journey of sexual empowerment