Get the Most Out of Your Love Life


What I Do

Individual  Coaching

Coaching Sessions are 1-on-1 confidential, compassionate, and judgement-free conversations. You deserve a safe space to heal, connect, and explore. Begin a journey of sexual empowerment, self-love, processing trauma, exploring your identity, and/or gaining tools to become a better lover/partner/friend.


My approach to couples coaching stems from a mindfulness based practice. What would a successful relationship look like? By identifying the needs and desires of each person as an individual, and together as a couple, we will work together to establish more loving tools of healthy communication, allowing both partners to be seen and heard. 

Advertising on Social Media

I create branded content on social media with companies my values are aligned with. My mission is to provide accessible mental health and sexual wellness resources to my community. I pam available for brand ambassadorship, multimedia campaigns, giveaways, reviews, and IG static posts and Reels/TikToks. I'm interested in collaborating with open-minded people across all industries! Please email for potential partnerships.


I am passionate about public speaking and advocating for love, sexual wellness, pleasure, and human rights. I am available to speak at conferences, events, and workshops as well as on podcasts and other media channels. If you are interested in having me speak at your event, please email

Sex and Relationship

Let me host and/or design a workshop for you. Through my range of expertise in the fields of sexual, mental, and emotional health, I have the resources to provide resourceful information and skill-building exercises for your group or company. To learn more about what working with me, email  

Hello, I’m Shelby!

Here to take your love and sex life to another level

I'm a love, sex, and life coach based in New York City. I have a background in holistic Transformational Life Coaching (ICF). My mission is to hold space for people to explore their sexuality and relationships with open minds and loving hearts. I offer a judgement-free space where my clients can feel comfortable, authentic, connected, and free to explore their lives with curiosity.


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What People Are Saying

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Shelby was able to talk through my emotions and helped me consciously choose to make healthy decisions. I have been able to pinpoint my wants and needs and she has given me tools to exercise that. Showing me vulnerability isn’t weakness  which sounds like an easy concept but I couldn’t wrap my head around it without her. I feel clarity with my thoughts after every session. She has helped my intimate and personal relationships tremendously. Thank you! 

Puteri - Client 

Let's Get Started

Book a free consultation to get started on your journey of sexual empowerment